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Hello, dear friend! Are you tired or confused about searching without success for your one and only Mr Right in this world. Do you really enjoy going to weddings? I really do, for such occasion can be very pleasant. You see the couple looking their best. Better yet, there is such joy on their faces. On this occasion, they're all smiles, and their future seems full of hope and promise. Some believe that marriage is essential to happiness -that you can't find fulfillment or joy in life unless you find a mate. Whatever reasons motivates a person to marry, it is good to be realistic
Delay in getting a marriage partner has thrown many young women into a state of hopelessness. In fact, some have come to a conclusion that there is probably no man for them. That is simply untrue!
In other words, there is a man specially prepared for. But while you are waiting and expecting the best partner there are certain things you must put in place to make your dream come true.
If you are thinking seriously about marriage, you would do well to ask yourself, 'Am I really ready? The answer does not simply lie in your feelings about love, sex, companionship. or child rearing. Rather, there are specific goals each prospective wife should think about.
What is the point? A woman who decides to marry is agreeing to shoulder a number of weighty responsibilities. There are some skills and qualities that a wife may need she helps her husband and cares for her household. Women who rush into marriage without preparing to take on the the responsibilities involved are really being selfish, failing to think what the can offer a potential mate.
Most of all, though, those contemplating marriage need to be prepared spiritually. The spinsterhood period affords you the privilege to to develop yourself spiritually. You don't know what lies ahead of you. But through consistent prayer, you can prepare yourself, straighten every crooked path and destroy every evil arrangement against you.
Pray for a good and God-fearing husband. Most men will proclaim to be good but how can you find a faithful man? There are lots of false bachelors out there who are ever ready to deceive yet are on the lookout for chaste and well-groomed spinsters for marriage. It is only in the place of prayer you can prevent such people from crossing your path.
Never be pressured to go for just any one because time is running out. Only the best is good for you. Never seem to be in a hurry. Always seem patient, as if you know that everything will come to you eventually. Learn to stand back when the time is not yet ripe. Preparing for marriage involves meditation on the roles God has assigned wife. Will she be willing to submit to her husband? Since her husband's authority in the household is not negotiable. Can she be supportive and submissive when it comes to the authority of an imperfect man? If that prospect is not appealing, she does well to refrain from marrying.
Whatever God has said concerning your marital life will surely come to pass;only be patient for the manifestation. As a wife-to-be, spend quality time in praying for your future home and for godly children. Pray that your children will be a blessing to your home and the society at large. Also spend quality time reading the bible and other seasoned books. The knowledge you acquire will determine how far you will go in life.
Are you a sociable person? The world is dangerous and enemies are everywhere-everyone has to protect themselves. Isolation seems the safest. But it exposes you to more danger than it protects to you from-it cuts you off from valuable information, it makes you conspicuous and easy target. Better circulate among people, find allies, mingle. Take time to work on yourself, especially on your character and your attitude towards people. Learn and cultivate the habit of showing love to others. Relate and interact well with people. Be sociable.
Do you know that the next person to you could provide a solution to your problem?
Ask questions from people you see as your role model. Find out different things from them like how to raise a good and successful home; how to cook varieties of meal; how to relate and cope with in-laws; finance management in the home; issues that could pose challenges to family and so forth.
The support of close friend could help you. However, it is not good if all your friends are all, of the same age, and desirous of getting married. You also need older friends, who can help you to keep things in perspective. And remember, there is someone who could be of help to ensure that you see further, do better and are equipped for the now and the future.
Nevertheless, don't let anybody to dictate your worth or create an identity for you. You don't have to get that guy before you become somebody or be fulfilled. You are already somebody;you are a person born to be great, a child of destiny. Relationships are important, but should be kept in the right perspective. If you don't have life of your own, you won't be happy even if you date, fall in love or get married. This is because you will have nothing to give to the relationship, and you will put extra-ordinary expectation on the other party. Know who you really are, that is discover yourself, the stuff you are made of. Most spinsters work on their externals, that is their hair, face, body, cloth, possession to give them self-worth or identity. There is nothing wrong with all these, but self-worth is not something you buy, achieve obtain, its something that is inherent in you.
Next be goal-oriented, set definite personal development goals. Achieve something extra-ordinary in the world. Develop yourself so that when an opportunity is passing you may grab it. How about your educational or vocational pursuit? Remember their is always room for improvement. Don't assume you have reached your peak. There are lots of professional programme and examination you can enroll for, in order to broaden your knowledge. You can also get yourself busy by attending vocational training institutes like catering school, computer training centre and lots more. The possibilities of these various opportunities are, indeed, incalculable.
Look important; it helps you to think important. pay attention to your health and maintain good personal hygiene. Your appearance talks to you. Be sure it lifts your spirit and builds your confidence. Your appearance talks to others. Make certain it says something good about you. Exercise your body and have a positive view of life. Dress properly and modestly because "you will be addressed the way you are dressed". Dressing shabbily will keep people away from you. Dressing provocatively will attract unwanted people to you.
Feed well. The body is what the body is fed. Some people are not diet-conscious. Be prepared to spend some money vitamins, minerals, and other dietary supplements. Through nutritional research, we've learned that the body reflects the diet fed the body. Physical stamina, resistance to diseases, body size, even how long we live are all closely related to what we eat. So, be wise. Also, as part o your physical preparation, you must start getting useful household items like cooking utensils, cutlery, bedding, clothing materials, and so fort
Above all, get yourself engaged in the service of God and humanity. There are different areas of work where you input will be appreciated. There are lots of hidden treasures which can be used to add value to other peoples lives. Always remember that you created to be a solution to someone's problem. Relinquish every thought of selfish interest and live solely for the happiness of other people!
Marriage can be a source of happiness for, but it is not the only source. Joy comes to all who keep their ways right, and married people have no monopoly of it. I some ways, single ones have certain advantages over those who are married. Single people have more personal freedom and can more easily use their lives in the service of God humanity. Make sure you accord priority to being useful wherever you are.
As you do all these, bear in mind that this period of spinsterhood is one-in-a-life-time opportunity. Hence, keep your balance. Even if you have a very strong desire to marry, meditating on these teachings will help you your balance and to make the most of your present circumstances.
In conclusion, don't worry, soon you will find someone wonderful who will fill that void. Just be useful wherever you are at the moment;educate yourself, perfect your God-given potentials and rely on God. When Mr. Right comes you will be worthy of him and he will be attracted to a woman who has integrity and dignity-a wife material.
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